Having Needs not Wants

There’s a big difference between what we *need* vs. what we *want*—but that line seems to blur more and more every day. With constant ads, endless scrolling, and curated content telling us what’s “in,” it’s easy to convince ourselves that we need the latest look, the trendiest accessory, or the most aesthetic outfit. But matter of fact? Most of what we consume isn’t fulfilling a need at all.

The fashion industry thrives off our wants. It's built around the idea that we constantly crave more—more clothes, more styles, more identity through what we wear. But here’s the truth: when we chase wants without checking ourselves, we contribute to a system that is built on waste, overproduction, and environmental harm. And at the end of the day, we’re left with cluttered closets and the same feeling of emptiness.

Our needs are much simpler. We need clothing that is functional, that lasts, that reflects who we are without damaging the world around us. We need transparency from brands. We need garments that are ethically made, not fast-tracked through factories with exploitative labor. We need fashion that supports both the planet and the people who live on it.

Shifting from wants to needs doesn’t mean we have to lose our sense of style. It means we begin to ask better questions before making a purchase: “Will I wear this more than once?” “Who made this?” “What is it made of?” “Do I already have something similar?” It’s about curating a wardrobe that serves us, rather than constantly chasing one that drains our energy, time, and money.

There’s power in choosing slower, more intentional fashion. Power in saying no to the pressure of constant consumption. Having needs over wants is not about deprivation—it’s about clarity. It's about choosing what truly adds value, not just to your look, but to your life.

Fashion can still be fun, expressive, and exciting. But when we root it in our actual needs, it becomes so much more meaningful.